I told you yesterday was bad!

So Monday night my ex called. I really don't want to talk to him anymore, ever. He just doesn't seem to get it though. I get all anxious and pissed off after talking to him. It ruins my next few days. Sorry if I was in a bad mood yesterday. I did get drunk last night and feel a LITTLE bit better today - I'm just hungover, and not so angry.

So other then dealing with the ex I have an internet friend that used to live up here. Met him twice, he's very quiet and doesn't make much conversation. Online he can chat up a storm, but in real life he doesn't say a word. So he left AK and is on a roadtrip to the east coast. I get an email from him talking about me saving up money so we could "take a dream vacation together" (exactly as he had it - underlined and all). Farther down in the email he says "I like talking with you" and "maybe I can buy you a ring in the future".

WTF? First off, I am recently single. I am not looking for a man, or want another relationship. I wouldn't mind some sex, but please, dream vacation, ring? WTF is this guy thinking. So I emailed and asked him if he was drunk when he wrote it, I know I would need to be! Then he starts giving me this crap about making him feel like shit and that it's all my fault he feels this way. WTF man, I didn't hold a FUKIN gun to your head and tell you to type. Man the fuk up and take responsibilty for you what fuckin do. It's not my fault you did anything, it's your own damn fault. I sent him another email telling him all this, and telling him to man up to his actions. I believe I also mentioned something along the "stalker" lines too.

GRRRRR - it's been a long week/month/year, and I can't wait for it/them to be over. Maybe 2008 will be a good year....

Comments

yea I would say so much ...

yea I would say so much for THAT guy. Move on. He's obviously a whack-job. If he€™s this possessive at this point AND he€™s blaming YOU for the fact he feels like shit, I don€™t know that there is any more of a red flag than that. He dangerous. Screw him.

Dream vacation? He ...

Dream vacation? He probably never asked what YOUR dream vacation is.Tell him you won't settle for less than a week in Tuscany. That should make him go away. The ex will get the message if you hang up often enough. He can't talk unless you listen.
I hope your drinking because you want to and not because of these loosers.

some people just read into ...

some people just read into shit. If you told him anything about your relationship with the other guy, he might of felt that he got close to you. Some people are just weird like that. But on the upside, you have someone that likes you alot and wants to marry you...

be careful that guy is ...

be careful that guy is dangerous. he has build up a relationship in his mind that doesn't exist. if he continues to harrass you then you might consider talking to the local cops. especially if there is any chance that he might come back to your area. as to the ex get an order forbiding him from calling you. what he is doing is also harrassment and you don't have to put up with it.

"MAN UP" I love it, ...

"MAN UP" I love it, that;s a good way to put it!! he needs a HARSH dose of reality and as far as the EX, EFF 'HIM, he'll eventually go away!

**and by "eff him" I mean ignore him, not really "F him", LOL!!

I don't think she likes ...

I don't think she likes her local cops much. What, with the hookers and crack heads across the street form her old house, that the cops were actually helping. :) Thought I'd bring back some fun memories for you AK.

whew, ok say it with me ...

whew, ok say it with me people..
whoosa...whoosaaa..
NOW
relax.....

relate.....

and........

release.......

and BREATHE!!

I get it Dawn. ...

I get it Dawn. Puff,puff,pass. Right?

yeah, OK, that works too!!

yeah, OK, that works too!!

Don't buy into online men ...

Don't buy into online men hon..they're all looking for the same thing...