Such a Biotch

Enter husband's ex-wife:

Ok, why do people TRY to make people sound bad to other people? I mean totally go out of their way. Is it just to elevate themselves to make them feel like a more likeable person? Here is the problem.

My husband's ex---whom yall might remember me bitching about from previous posts---decided to call my husbands mom and dad and tells them how their son NEVER calls his son. He never returns phone calls, and we never answer when they call. Lookie here hoochie, you know better, and his parents know better. They know you are a fame and attention whore, and lets not forget to add drama queen. But to make matters worse, both of his parents actually will call and ask, "how long since you have talked to Jaxson?" WHAT? The few things that dumb-ass in the corner forgot to mention was that she refuses to answer the phone when we call, after voice messages left on cell phone AND home phone. She is really trying to drive a stake between my husband and their son, because she knows he wants to move down here with us. Why can't the court hold dumb ass people in jail?? It would be a much safer and comfortable place for children and adults.....Even if I am the only one in my town on the OUTSIDE of the bars......

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And the one that suffers ...

And the one that suffers the most is the son that probably hears nasty things about his father from his mother.

you better belive ...

you better belive it....she spews crap all of the time, but when he comes down he will say mama said this and that, but I know it's not true. It is pretty bad when your kid knows your a liar.

Document all the calls ...

Document all the calls that you make so you can counter whatever she says. Don't let the ex or the kid know you're doing it, get a tape recorder with a timestamp built into it and ask the phone company to provide detailed bills every month of all incoming and outgoing calls.

I remember how you said ...

I remember how you said that HER own son knows she is a liar! so sad that your own kid doesn't believe in you but if I remember, he is old enough to testify to that! as long as the family doesn't believe that crap, she'll get nowhere!

And people wonder why some ...

And people wonder why some men beat their wives. I would NEVER do that, never have and don't condone it in ANY WAY. The point is simply that some women think they can lie and cheat and steal (as in steal children away from their husbands, the fathers) and get away with it while psychologically abusing them just to get in every last jab they possibly can. What do they expect? Why doesn't society hold THEM just as accountable as the fathers who they mercilessly tear into calling them "deadbeat dads" when it is more often the fathers (in my experience) who have been BADLY wronged and who pay and are denied visits etc.

My ex came to my son's soccer game this past Sunday, only the second time this season out of 5 games. When he was in her possession (I will not say "custody" for many reasons, she was no mother and not even a halfway decent "custodian") she also went to few of his games or piano recitals while I, living over an hour away, drove through the tunnels or over the bridge, paying the toll, paying the gas and mileage of 100+ round trip miles and dealt with the second worst traffic in the entire country to do so EVERY SINGLE TIME. She lived right there and didn't go!

So back to the soccer game Sunday. She comes with her brother (he's Never been to one before in 12 years) and says she is seeing double. We (my parents and my sister in-law, even her brother) ALL ignore her because she is Often loopy like that. Then she says it again and again this third time adding that "*** (my son) is running very nicely out there with his twin". Okaaaaay, now it's time to tell her to go to the hospital. Seeing double can be a sign of EXTREMELY SERIOUS medical conditions such as stroke. She laughs. That's typical for her. Then she says (pointing) "That boy over there has TWO Heads and the second one is perfectly solid and clear to me as the first one". We tell her again to go get help in the ER IMMEDIATELY. She's a nurse for crying out loud and won't go. Eventually, she says another crazy thing about seeing double and another one of us tells her to go to the ER, do not mess around with such a thing that can be so terribly serious. She calls someone and says "Hi, I think I'm schizophrenic. I'm seeing two of everything...". After a while she hangs up and calls someone else who I surmised was someone she works with. She says the SAME THING "Hi, I'm seeing two of everything and think I'm schizo..." Then she finally decides to leave and go to the ER. She gets up and asks her brother if he wants to stay and watch the rest of the soccer game. HELLO!!! They came in ONE car and he needs to driver HER. NO FREAKING WAY she should be driving while seeing DOUBLE and thinking she's schizo!

Some women are not well. Some men are not well. But the women get away with it soooooooooo much more because they can. They can bat their eyes and tilt back their shoulders and sway from side to side acting all cute, flip their hair, etc. This has to stop. People have to see through the ACT. MORE and MORE of them are getting worse BECAUSE they have been allowed to get away with it for so long and it hasn't stopped yet. I'll go back to how we ONLY only hear about "deadbeat dads" for instance.. When has ANYONE heard of a "deadbeat mom"??? NEVER. IT is NEVER said. I Guarantee they are out there and I've researched it. The mothers who forced by the court to pay child support get away with not paying and virtually NEVER spend a single day in jail for it, the exact opposite for fathers. And it happens at a FAR higher percentage for them than for the dads. Of course mothers are almost ALWAYS awarded custody initially, no matter what character or mental problems they have, so they are greater in number on the receiving end but when they are compelled to pay they are almost NEVER paying it and yet all we hear about is the dads when they CAN'T pay, not only when they don't. Then they are labeled with that horrible name "deadbeat". Let's have some fairness. Women wanted equality, but not really it seems. They only wanted equal pay, and equal rights, not equal responsibility. If you are schizo, you should NOT have even ANY visiting privileges with the child(ren) that are not supervised. I am currently considering my options although I don't want to turn my son against me. He is fooled by her like so many in society are fooled by women in general as to think they can do no wrong, they are historically the "keepers of morality" while men are the bad guys, the trouble makers who fight and abuse and don't pay child support etc. I never missed a single payment when she had custody, was ALWAYS on time or early with it. SHE however, as a nurse (yes a self-professed schizophrenic nurse) is late every single time and always has been since I won back my son's physical and legal custody.

There are going to have to be a LOT of changes before our country can consider itself anything less than broken, disfunctional, and so biased against men that it rivals slavery itself.

that woman sounds like a ...

that woman sounds like a real B**** so do as rkinne01 suggests and document everything. that will help you get the kid.

WalterTH3rd - unless you had a dna test that kid might be yours but you don't care so didn't bother and i am sure that trust fund will never show up.

TGIX - in my experence it is more often the man who f***s up and leaves the woman holding the bag along with the kids and the bills. i could write a book on how many women my ex slept with the kind of drugs he used and how he never paid any child support. oh yeah and how he refused to talk to his grown up son when the kid finally tracked him down. you had a bad experence so get over it. not all women are like that just as all men are not like my ex jerk.

that woman

since you can prove he is ...

since you can prove he is not your son you can amend the birth cert if you want to. but if you really care (as you say you do) then be there now not in the future. he needs a father to look up to not money someday.