I'm having a crummy day
So I was pretty stressed out about the whole court shit I have to do for the ex... Well more for the DA then the ex, but it's from all the crack head stuff. So I called a friend last night to talk about things. He is a very good friend of mine, has been for years. Last night he tells me how he's in love with me, and has been for a long time. This all came as a shock to me, but if I would have opened my eyes I would have seen it coming.
So I have the new boyfriend, and now I have this guy wanting me to move back to PA for him. I just don't know what to do. I love being in Alaska. I left PA because I couldn't get a job back there, and I can up here. I have a killer job making good money and love the people I work with. How do I give that up? Should I give that up? Oh what to do what to do... I need a vacation. Time to start flipping a coin to figure out what I am to do!
By the way, if anyone happens to stumble across the book of answers, please send it to me.
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ooh, that is quite the ...
ooh, that is quite the pickle. im not really sure i have advice for you except to go with your heart. dont think "logically."
DAMN, it always happens!!! ...
DAMN, it always happens!!! just when you're happy and going good, you find this out!! Just when you found someone after all you went thru before, he should've said something back then!!! now that you're off the market he wants to tell you that!!! dang, when you were lookin he didn't say anything!!!
well, seems like you're ...
well, seems like you're better off in AK and happier there too, so I'd stay with that...in my opinion.
Do you love your friend ...
Do you love your friend back in PA? If you love him, that puts a whole different spin on your circumstances. Otherwise it sounds like AK is the place for you.
Did he offer to move to ...
Did he offer to move to Alaska to be with you? Strange that he feels you should disrupt your life for him and not the other way around. My advise to you is exactly the opposite of conanabanana--Think with your head instead of your heart. You have to make the decision that is best for you and your future, not do something drastic just because, some man, thousands of miles away says he thinks he loves you. He is asking you to make all the sacrifices, he makes none. If he loves you so much, let him quit his job, move to Alaska and find out if it is going to work out for the two of you. This advise comes from someone who has been in the world a lot longer than either you or conanabanana. Take care.