I sure didn't think I was signing up for this shit!
OK.. you fellow peevers who are with a man with a BITCH ex (who by the way, I have never met nor talked to yet and who I call a BITCH because I have heard her on the other end of the phone to him, and notes, etc. and she is apparently still bitter about him leaving her but it was not for me..he and I met in 2006) and kids spawned from that same BITCH...how do you deal with those hellion kids that obviously have their fat ass mamas attitude and no rules, respect, etc. etc. etc? and a man (whom you love) that says well they are kids and I only see them every other weekend.. And I say well neither you (because you could enforce it when they are in your care) nor their (did i say BITCH mama?) are doing either kid a favor by not enforcing rules and making them use manners and show some respect for others and others property and listen when they are told to do something... (OH WAIT,they would have to have been taught all that in the first friggin place by their mother, at least, since she has had them almost full time for the past 6 yrs. The kids are 9 and 12..)
We went away for the weekend all together (WTF WAS I THINKING), and talk about them acting like a couple of a-holes..OMG! and being guests in someone elses house and acting like that..It doesn't matter that it was family or not... It goes well beyond the weekend episode...He and I have been living together since this past August.
Short of moving out, which is looking real good.. I am at a loss how to handle this..