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I do not mean to judge any one else, if it's your thing fine and dandy,but my boy friend is determined to involve me in a threesome with a buddy of his. I have voiced my disapproval of this idea, but he simply will not give up. I know that if I give in, our relationship will never be the same. What do you fellow peevers think? any input will be appreciated....
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um yeah, it might seem (to ...
um yeah, it might seem (to him) like a good idea, like fun cuz it's all new and exciting, but I've seen movies about stuff like that and you're right, everything will change, maybe not right away, but it will eventually. and usu. a guy wants 2 GIRLS with him, not another GUY??!!
ooooh, that's something I ...
ooooh, that's something I didn't think about, lol.
Ask the 2 guys to ummm get ...
Ask the 2 guys to ummm get it on in front of you , if they've been "practicing" you'll know!
rkinne! Lol! GE, I'm ...
rkinne! Lol!
GE, I'm guessing this would be a bad idea. Usually when one person isn't up for it but the other is, it puts a strain on the relationship if they do decide to do it. When BOTH parties are ok with it, that's different. Maybe explain to him about how that kind of intimacy should be reserved for the two of you only. That it's something special you don't want to share with anyone else. I hope he can get this out of his head, but I highly doubt he will unless it happens. Good luck and stick to your guns!
I agree with all of the ...
I agree with all of the above. If youaren't interested then he should NOT be pushing you. I think it is VERY odd he wants another guy. I agree with Dawn, men usually want two women.
I say dump him and find a guy that wont push you into things you aren't comfortable with.
Plus has his buddy been tested???? You don't want to catch and STD
Its not unusual for 2 guys ...
Its not unusual for 2 guys to wanna share a woman, it doesn't mean that the guys have to do gay stuff. Just wanted to put that out there.
I always say fuck 'em if ...
I always say fuck 'em if they can't take a joke. Or joke 'em if they can't take a fuck. Or something like that.
Whatever. Do what you want. Don't do what you don't want. End of story.
Diolma..exactly. There ...
Diolma..exactly.
There are some people out there who can't stand being monogomous...thus they look into swinging websites where couples get together and screw each other's spouses..and for some reason..it's a turn on.
My ex got into that (which is the major reason WHY he's my ex)..and tried to involve me. He said it would spice up our sex life.
I loved this man to death at the time and thought I'd keep him by at least..looking into it. We met a few couples and there wasn't a guy on the face of this planet that I could have even THOUGHT about having sex with except my hubby.
Yeah right..
One day he left his Yahoo archives up....only for me to find out that he'd been stepping out on his own...not only when I didn't wanna do it..but the fact that HE'D been doing it..BEHIND BACK...for like EVER!!